प्यार, क्या है यह प्यार ?क्या होता है यह प्यार, प्यार ...? हर और एक रिश्ते की तरह यह भी एक रिश्ता है, फिर भी हर बार उसको अलग - अलग पहलुओं में तोला जाता है, हर बार उस पर सवाल उठाए जाते हैं, हर बार उसको कटघरे में खड़ा किया जाता है, हर बार पूछा जाता है, क्यों करते हो इतना, प्यार ? किस लिए किया जाता है, यह प्यार किसे कहते हैं ? यह प्यार मेरे लिए शायद सब कुछ है, फिर भी मुझे साबित करना पड़ता है कि मेरे लिए वह सब कुछ है|
हर बार बोला जाता है के सबसे बड़ा प्यार मां और बेटे का होता है, होता है! मैं कहां मना कर रहा हूं, पर फिर भी वह एक खून का रिश्ता है और फिर भी आपने देखा होगा बहुत सारी मां, अनाथ आश्रम में बैठी, तो आप मानोगे या बोलोगे मां और बेटे का प्यार प्यार नहीं है होता है ?
पर यह सबसे बड़ा inner bonding होता है, सबसे बड़ा होता है| क्योंकि बेटा मां से जन्म लेता है और उसके जन्म का एहसास मां से जुड़ा होता है और वह एहसास है वह प्यार मैं फर्क नहीं करता पर फिर भी फर्क दिखाया जाता है|
हर बार किसी लड़के और लड़की का रिश्ता गुनाह माना जाता है,!!!
उनसे पूछा जाता है किसने permission दी ? किसे पुछ कर किया था? हम लोगों ने आप को पढ़ा लिखा या है इस दिन के लिए ? यह सारे सवाल पूछे जाते हैं और जवाब देने पड़ते हैं, ठीक है ! पूछने वाले अपने हैं और हम हर उस अपने से भी तो प्यार करते हैं।
हमने कोई फर्क नहीं किया हमने तो बस प्यार किया। जब भी समाज की बात होती है समाज झंडा लेकर बैठ जाता है कि अपने पेरेंट्स से प्यार करो !
अपने परिवार से प्यार करो बस किसी लड़की से प्यार मत करो, और क्यों ना करें भाई ?
यह भी एक एहसास है, जो इंसान को इंसान बनाता है। किसी ऐसे से मिलाता है जो इंसान की अपने आप से पहचान करवाता है। उसे खुद के फैसले लेना सिखाता है। खुद की अहमियत और सामने वाले की रिस्पेक्ट करना सिखाता है।
फिर भी यह क्यों पूछा जाता है क्या है यह प्यार और अगर मुझसे पूछा जाए बार-बार पूछा जाए या जितनी भी बार पूछा जाए मैं यही कहूंगा यह भी एक एहसास है, जीने का अंदाज है और जिस दिन लगता है कि इसके बगैर जी नहीं पाऊंगा और सच में जी नहीं पाता हूं, ऐसा इंसान जब लाइफ में आए और उससे मुझे जुड़ा हुआ, लगेगा हर मेरा एहसास हर मेरी सांस उसके लिए है। सब कुछ कर गुजरने को जी चाहे और सच में कर दिखाए ऐसे रिश्ते को और उस एहसास को कहते हैं प्यार written by Ashishkumar Tailor
Tuesday, July 11, 2023
क्या है यह प्यार प्यार
Life is an opportunity you got to live it;
Life is an opportunity you got to live it;
Life has always given me opportunity to learn, and what I learnt from this life is things can go wrong, it can bloody go wrong, and we do learn from the science in the school life that; “According to Newton's Third Law of Motion action and reaction are equal and opposite. ... Now we come to Newton's Third Law: "If one object exerts a force on another the other exerts the same force in opposite direction on the one.”
As per this theory, ‘what bloody can go wrong’, can definitely go ‘wrong’ with it's intended force and if that can go wrong, can always and possibly one day with it's equal and opposite force have to come in a ‘right’ direction.
So instead of all this worry, I just wanted to give you a Morning regards. Actually, charismatic #GoodMorning one in other style, as life has also taught me that; “one thing can be done in a different ways and different styles.”
And i also did it in one of the other way, yeah 😉. Me is as always the regards giver Ashishkumar Tailor. After reading this you must be somewhat angry or may be happy, happier!, whatever!!! have a great day😀.
I know one fact and secret about you from always is that; you got a beautiful smile. That smile looks great on you😀.
#GoodMorning #HappySaturday #Believe #BelieveEverythingIsPossible #Hope #Destiny #Desire #Determination regards from Ashishkumar Tailor😀 #Share
Written by Ashishkumar Tailor.
Believe it, Believe in it, believe everything is possible
Calculation of belief is so simple, either you can have belief in it or you can't. When you believe on something, you do it, you may fail, be better and give your best again, you may fail again, so what it's your belief, you wanted to do it! will you give up? No. Work on yourself, be better, give your everything and give your improvised best again, you may fail, so what. Do it again, do it till you get it, do it till you become successful and in this process you will be better human than the day you started. Success will be yours because you started believing that you can be successful.
It's all about your belief system and it has to be so strong, strong enough that you don't give up bu listening to others. Because your belief system cannot be scratch by any other. It has to build in your system. It has to nurture in you, it has to become your thought, it has to become your Nature, it has to be strong enough to change your surrounding environment. Because it's your belief and once you believe in it , it can not be undone. It can be taken by any one, it cannot be taken away by any one.
It should be in your prayers , I will be in your culture. Even it should be in your heart seeded so well that should grow like a tree and it has to be farmed everyday with the proper feed.
This crops bof belief in you will only grow when you believe in yourself and the moment you start doing it, it will become the practice in you.
The food you take, the air you breath, they also should eat the belief you feed. The soul of you body should also have the only source that the only belief you believe.
Believe that you can do it and anything and everything will become possible, and it will become possible only and only because you believe in it.
The moment you question your belief system, system stop believing , once you don't believe in yourself universe stops believing in you, as the person don't believe in himself how universe can depend on him.
There is only way it's possible, when you believe it is. Once you believe it so strongly, it has to happen. It will happen because it will have that energy field protected by your own belief system and yes it works, it works when you say to yourself I can , yes it will become possible, because you believe you can. When you have such pure energy and such strong belief system the nature around you , environment around you become part of it and everything Started aling in a sane direction to make it true. It has become true because you believe in it. Every time to do work, you work with such conviction that the universe will do anything and everything to make it possible.
It will become Possible because it's possible and you believe in it that it's possible, you can do it and so you can do it. You just do it. Yes you can.
Believe everything is possible.
Written by Ashishkumar Tailor.🥳🥳🥳
I really don't know how are you going to celebrate this Diwali
I really don't know how are you going to celebrate this Diwali
but celebrate in a way that you can change one life, that one life will give one change to a life and one more life can be a more hope to one more life and that will keep growing and going and I am sure if we all get together for single agenda that's call success in common then we all will be successful. We all will be prosperous, prosperous prosperous and that way we will have a growth and a successful better society.
Once you have taken a decision in life, just believe on it as there is nothing in this world happened without any reason, all the reason have there own hidden purposes. Always remember each taken decision will have its own concious consequences. So don't worry every time you can't fail, but even in the failure you learn a lot.
So again the same questions, I really don't know how we are going to celebrate this Diwali.
But I know for sure that because of one believer, one trust, one faith, i will change one life by this diwali and that's mine. I will rise above all the challenges of my life, i will rise myself good enough that i could help rest of the mankind.
No matter what it takes, no matter how difficult it's going to be but i am sure i am going to make it all that real in reality with all your blessings and my efforts.
I don't know how I am going to celebrate this Diwali but i am sure i will put my efforts in right direction so that i could see myself grown enough to see celebrating everyday like diwali, everyday going to be prosperous prosperous prosperous.
I bow myself to you with all my ability, respect, strength and effort to bless me with success success and success and at the same moment you get the same blessings from me and my family to have a life people only dream live it.
Happy Diwali everyone, no matter what it takes, whatever it takes but believe me, believe everything is possible.
Live each moment of life so gracefully that the each lived moment shall bless you.
Success is all yours.
Written regards from Ashishkumar Tailor.
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અધૂરી રહેલી વાતો Written by Ashishkumar Tailor
क्या पता कितने दिन है जिंदगी? क्या पता कितने लम्हे है यह जिंदगी?
If there is life... Written by Ashishkumar Tailor
If there is life, it's within you,
If you are searching, searching outside? Searching in this world ?, I feel you must search it within you.
Love this life as this life is so mean to you that it's always with you and with it's all grace it was only created to take care of you.
While walking towards the end of the road you always find a new mysterious way and new ways end up discovering a new form, a new way of living, may be a new form of life with greater means to celebrate it. But while walking you never had a dead end when you walk it with wisdom. While wounded thought you always find yourself crying and life struggles. So be clear on what you have started, had started a new strategy for you to live this life with it's better purposes and it's better means.
You know why you feel burden to live sometimes, why it becomes so difficult to live and even breathing is now so heavy. I tell you how exactly it happens, as and when we plan our desires with king size dreams and confused ambitions life also plan the journey along with us and upon walking in the same direction with our unclear ambitions we realised we will not make it up and we change our plans again to queen size dreams and with us our loyal partner life again pack necessity suitcase to fulfill all the desires. Thus every time with change in plans living becomes difficult as the suitcase becomes heavier due to confused ambitions. And then we blame life. When we couldn't reach the desired destination we blame life. But this is not life meant for, it is not created to destroy you it was always created to take care of you. So, if you believe on something you must trust it, you must stick on to it, till you get it, life must be lived and journey of it should be in that same direction, the direction you want to live desperately without keeping any doubts in mind, with free will, with full trust on to it, and with your total determination. Even if you don't trust fully on to your own plans for living, believe me; on the opposite side life has already trusted it completely and planned the journey with you to get you on the successful mark with all the necessary suitcase.
Honestly I don't understand tomorrow, I can't see it through my eyes but I must see the day as that's the only key to unlock coming tomorrow as living this moment give me enough to keep living, keep moving, keep exploring the coming days and nights.
The most essential element of living is how good you makes mistakes as while making it you nurture yourself, mould yourself and nurturing and moulding gives a better perspective in life and this makes you more matured, sensible to see things and lead you in ways to live a life with better prosperous and may be a purposeful reasonable living. But you must be still wondering why I am certifying mistakes as the most essential elements of life, that's because of my past learning and even from the most ancient stories of living life that if Adam and Eve had not made a mistake of eating the apple we would have never gained a conscience. If the flying thunder had not made a mistake of falling in the flowing water there would never have born an amoeba, a smallest form of life and There by their divisions have created various versions of life, various forms of life. Looking into this discoveries mistakes deserves the certificate of most essential elements of life. Again on to say this feels proud that the life and while living on to it made mistakes have also created a life, as life was only created to take care of you, right!
You always start and end up in failure and many times success is joyed but now you know that stopping at an end has never helped you. Questioning a situation with an open eye provide you the reason and a solutions. At an edge of solutions you might have always wondering that's only because you always have kept boundaries for you but life never draw a limited boundary wall. It always strokes it self with full acceleration to get you what's always right.
So I have moved on in life and I am keep moving, thinking that's the only way to see the other way, to see the other side of life. If keep moving is disturbing you believe me holding on to one place even firmly will bother you a lot and keep bothering want help much, ask me? Really it really don't help much.
While writing I was really on to a journey, had not slept a night, had no scope to relax but was willing to share what I might can and what's my mind is up to and shared a thought that might help one another insomniac night.
As many nightmares I have seen it has came and gone and I saw rising sun each day. The next day of life, the another day, the past one, the next one, the old, one the gold one, someday a bold one, some really a coward one, some heroic and some are really special. And hence has kept holding each day by moving with each passing day, I have grown and may have learnt to live this life.
When you live it with it's flow you need nothing much to live but when you go against it flows you really need to push hard to live it. Ya even difficult to breath it, as when you stop breathing by holding your nostrils life push so hard from within and you start breath the elixir of life. So how you live? you must live by a push towards the aim of living and life push to live it back just like a good symbiotics.
Even after knowing everything we still have certain situations in life that we really don't understand what's happening?, what's going on?, why it's happening in that pattern?, in those times trust your best man “Time”, have patience and trust your best man Time, the greatest warrior on this earth Arjun have learnt Bhagvat Geeta from lord Krishna himself and forgotten, again Krishna thought him how to live in shorter form AnuGeeta but still upset Arjun asked lord Krishna to write something on wall in very few lines in such a way that by only reading of those lines he should be happy in sad or bad time and he shall still remains peaceful and firm in a real good time and as always a solutions of everything and a solution for every form of life lord Krishna wrote on wall that we must keep in our mind too that “This time will also get passed” , “આ સમય પણ જલદીજ પસાર થઇ જશે”. And this beautiful lines had always helped a warrior Arjun and still will lead us to live a peaceful life.
So, if you find life on moon or not, doesn't matter but you must find it within, that's matter a lot, it mean a lot. Life mean a lot, mean to you mean to the earth and mean for every existences of Life.
So, with a tag line I Ashishkumar Tailor has always quoted this on to my each writable wall that
“Live each moment of your life so gratefully that the each lived moment shall blessed you.”
Chapter of “If there is Life”… written by Ashishkumar Tailor.